facebook theory

It's not that Facebook ruins relationships. Its that people don't know how to use it. It gives access to more history than people have previously ever had access to. Merely thinking of an old lover has very different implications than being able to find them and talk to them. If you go ahead, dig up that past and revisit it and it blows up in your face, you should just agree to accept it and work from there. Before you go peepin, remember all the times, not just the good times. When you're searching for something, you will find a way to find what you're looking for. And if you're running onto the page of your old lover to escape a current situation or fall back into the bliss that used to be, you probably wont be receptive to the whole truth of the situation. After all, they said curiosity killed the cat, and hindsight is always 20/20.....